So i was in a little situationship with a guy i met a year ago, started out hot and heavy and when we would see each other and hook up it felt like a relationship because he can’t keep his hands off me and he initially persued me until i couldn’t spend the night, i have my reasons and i told him and he broke things off with me saying we could just be fwb. Well i said no at first but then because he is super attractive i went along with it. Well would see each other and have sex, cuddle and makeout and just be very coupley and give each other massages and he would constantly tell me doesn’t this feel so good us being skin to skin and we fit like a puzzle. He would always fall asleep cuddled up with me and that’s when I would go home. He always wanted me to stay but I cant. Anyways he would always go ghost and cold on me and in the beginning I would lowkey chase because i didn’t understand why he was so into me at one moment and then disappear on me and not want to initiate to see me or talk to me, i stopped chasing because i thought i was ghosted and he would text me either in a month or couple weeks, the longest we didn’t see or talk to each other was 3 months. Anyways at this point we hooked up about 20 times now. And its always passionate and hot and then nothing after i leave his place. I think he is an avoidant, i also found out he has a long distance relationship all the way in a different country and he constantly breaks up with her too. I know this because i know her ig and tik tok and i keep seeing her posts of her being heartbroken and ghosted and she deletes their pictures. Anyways last time i saw him was 3 weeks ago and he messaged me couple days ago wanting for me to come over and i said i couldn’t but i could the next day. He said how he couldn’t wait to see me and do the dirty with me and i responded with a flirty dirty message back, he didn’t respond until next day at 9pm and told me he is waiting for me to come over and when i asked him what time and then he told me 10pm. So i said ok. 30 minutes later he texts me “damn i have to cancel” i asked why and he said something came up with his parents. He lives alone so not sure what would come up at 9:30. Anyways i just said “oh ok” and let it be because i didn’t want to chase, i was very mad and disappointed ofcoarse. He never cancelled our hangouts before. I was thinking he was going to reach out the next day but didn’t. Yesterday i was looking at my instagram fake account to watch his stories and realized I couldn’t find him. I went on my main account and realized he blocked me. We don’t even follow each other, we did long time ago but he unfollowed so i unfollowed back but that was long time ago. Anyways he blocked me even though my profile is private and we don’t follow each other and i don’t even bother him or talk on there. What is going on? Is he avoidant or just lost interest overnight? I felt a deep connection with him but maybe im delusional.
